My parents quarrelled again and is a serious one i think coz dad left the house. Think this year it was the 3rd time and the severity getting worst. It is also the accumulation of a lot of emotions and conflicts between both of them. Both of them were at fault but dad's attitude and behaviour is getting worst-slamming the doors and shouting at mum."divorce" becomes a common word during their quarrel.

I did not comment anything as i need to spend time for my upcoming exams. Just hope everything will be fine as they cool down. However, if dad still remains that attitude, more quarrels will be lining up in the future. Changing a person's attitude and personality is very tough unless he learnt himself- like in SAW4 ( jigsaw: "u can only save urself!") Hiaz. What to do? Saying that i didnt address him and show him respect...but i always think respect is earned and mutual and not forced. Mum although a bit naggy at times but she showed financial and emotional support to us- like attend my concert. ( me and my elder bro-xian who were both in university have not been taking any $ from home as we do is quite a burden for them to support 2 uni undergrad) Xian has chosen to stay in hall so that to concentrate in his study for his last 2 years. I would want to but leaving my mum alone at home and i feel very bad & i need to teach ruan to earn my pocket money...

Divorcing was not my idea but if life was really getting to that stage where no solutions can resolve the problem...then that might be a better alternative.And Why money is always the start of the sparks of conflict? Pray for the best and respect for him plunged down another level. always hope that he wasnt like that and whole family can live together happily!

tired earthworm.....