my little notorious bro
Sunday, March 23, 2008
The moment he steped into the house i flared at him...i know i always did that but sometimes i really cannot control of myself regarding the respect ( basic moral value) towards other- "he again take my things without my permission!" I am really tired and sick of searching for my bags, or shirts when i need them till i told my mum i wanted to move out...
Yesterday, he told my watch, bag, polo tshirt, cardigan etc... which is too much because i am in the room and he dont bother to tell me and just took them away- what attitude is this. Those things dont belong to him... and why must he wears those branded stuff when going out. I know you want to show off... is not your stuff...is mine. I need to bring across the correct concept...those are my stuff!!! i spend money, effort and time in accquring them...how can you take them without permission to show off in front of friends???? At your age, it is not the time to do all these.
Catching attention in the wrong way- saying that no one care about you.
Did you think why? coz we all gave up long ago. No energy to repeat and repeat the same old story again and again because you dun seems to understand. I been through a hard time during my study when parents cant help me coz they only studied a little, elder bro busy over his studies too, no money for tuition teacher....so i know the only way to move out from such a condition of proverty is to study hard, work hard and get a cert so that i can improve from the present condition.
He dun seem to understand. Life and time just flies. Time cannot turn back and return to its original states if you dun cherish them now. Once O level done, you cannot regret and change the result anymore. How other will think of you- not having a good grade?
Everyone one has their role to play...at home i am a son, elder bro and younger bro. At sch, i am school mates, classmates and projects mates and friends. At work, i am a colleague and a teacher/instructor. Everyone needs to change their mindset and actions according to the role they are playing. As a instructor i shout at students but i dun do that to my mum. You are a son, a bro and student. Did you think that you had perform these roles well?
But he cant. Hope what we did last night can knock some sense to him that his O level is coming!